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However, as a person grows older, Dreams are no longer light, He began to weigh life with his hands, Value fruits more than flowers.
When people have a way out, they feel a sense of security. When the day comes when you really have no way out, you will find that any road in front of you can be taken and passed.
A person who completely pins his own value on the understanding of others is often worthless
𝑆𝑢𝑛𝑠𝑒𝑡 𝐿𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟
Don't forget the four principles of life: don't say the wrong words, don't sleep on the wrong bed, don't step on the wrong threshold, and don't touch the wrong pockets.
A quote I like recently: "Life is a wilderness, not a track." Life is not a fixed equation, and there is no single answer. In the wilderness of life, live according to your own rhythm and preferences.
I don’t know if tomorrow will be fine or not. But it’s been really hard lately, so hard that I’ve lost my defenses. Life is a mess, there are too many things that you can’t control, There are too many times when I am powerless
What we want may not be love, but preference. From the preference of others, we can confirm that we are unique. Only in this way can the loneliness among all living beings be eliminated.
Our status may be humble and our status may be small, but this does not mean that we are unimportant. Important is not a synonym for greatness, it is the soul's commitment to life.
One of the great goals of adulthood is to make enough money Then you can be like you were when you were a kid Live carefree
As long as you love everything, you can love it to a certain extent. As long as you live as happily as possible, you can get what you want to a certain extent.
The widest thing in the world is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, and wider than the sky is the human heart.
A good book, you can sit quietly and read it until the sun and the moon are dark, and you will rise and fall in the book, ignoring the noise of the world. This is the most peaceful happiness in the world.
Only when people can feel that "you can be unrestrained with this person" can you experience love. There is no need to show off inferiority or superiority, and one can maintain a calm and natural state. Real love should be like this.
Everyone mistakenly thinks that others live happier, more determined and brave lives. In fact, everyone has suffered so much, and in the end, they only dare to cry secretly on the street at night.
When life is at a low point, do more things for yourself. Reading, running, traveling, The more difficult the moment, the more you need to support yourself.
One person is invincible, Not because of what you have, It's that you have nothing to fear losing.
When one has tasted all, The ruthlessness of society, the sinister heart, Economic pressure, unbearable marriage, You will eventually learn to be kind to yourself.
Concentration is not a lifetime only like one person, but when you like someone Single minded.
Break your legs, give you another pair of crutches, and tell you: Without me, you can't even walk, so you have to be grateful.
The vast majority of us mortals lamenting that they are not talented enough or creative enough are actually hallucinations. In the end, the problem is nothing more than laziness, procrastination, and refusal to study, that's all.
Cherish the people in front of you, there are not many futures in life, there will always be someone who will accompany you for a ride, but not for the rest of your life.
True strength is not forgetting, but accepting. Accept parting ways, accept the impermanence of the world, Accepting loneliness and frustration, accepting a sudden sense of powerlessness, Accept your own imperfections, accept confusion, Anxiety, anxiety and regret, adjust your state, Find the strength to keep going and become a better version of yourself.
No matter what level of life you reach, There are people looking up at you below the steps, There are also people on the steps looking down at you. You look up because you are inferior, and when you bow your head, you are proud Only by looking up can you see your true self.
In this complex world, we should have, To live this life seriously, there are four abilities: Be at ease, know loneliness, remember the original intention, and be open-minded.
Wandering in the sea of books, time will go very slowly. You are in the book for a thousand years; you are watching the wheel of history rolling forward in the book; you are experiencing the soul-stirring love in the book. When you read, you give life to the book, and the book also gives color to your life.
I have to get used to anyone's ups and downs, and I have to get used to anyone's drifting away. I don't have the energy to please anyone now. I will be nice to anyone who treats me well. I don't want to maintain a relationship with a little tiredness. , One is that there is no time, and the other is that it is not necessary. Time allows us to learn to bear alone, and slowly makes us laugh without speaking, and pain without speaking.
Money is a person's greatest confidence. Only when you are financially independent can you not see so much trouble, and you don't have to be humble. You have the confidence to stand up straight, to accept love and be loved.
It is really important to have someone you like. When you are planning to live this ordinary life in a daze, you will try harder because of the other person. On so many days when you are exhausted or even unable to lift your head, you will give up because of the other person. I feel that there is still hope in life.
No matter which level of life you go up, there are people looking up at you at the bottom of the steps, and there are people looking down at you at the top of the steps. You raise your head with low self-esteem and bow your head to be complacent. Only when you look up can you see your true self.
"Get rid of the easy heart and lungs, get rid of the soft heart without bottom line, get rid of the tolerance of making mistakes again and again, and get rid of the kindness without principles." I hope everyone can do it.
Life has never been a miracle. Everyone is breaking down and healing themselves.
Kind people tend to believe in the kindness of others easily, And therefore underestimated the possibility of evil people exist and do evil.
Overthinking is the greatest waste of human energy. Believe in yourself and go get more experience. You can't achieve perfection by thinking, only by taking action.
If you can’t ease your anxiety about the future, do what’s right in front of you first. It is impossible to see the distance clearly in the foggy morning, but at least every step under the feet is clear. There will always be a moment when the fog clears, and until then, you can't stay put and not take a step.
No matter what everyone in the world says, I think my feelings are the right ones. No matter what others think, I will never disrupt my rhythm.
No matter what everyone in the world says, I think my feelings are the right ones. No matter what others think, I will never disrupt my rhythm.
The best relationship between people is that there is no relationship. Don't treat everyone as a confidant, don't just want to complain when you meet everyone
People shouldn't be too sober, let the past things pass by, and don't have to chew on them repeatedly. Life is not long, and there are not so many important things. It's dawn, and it's earned again.
When you feel a lot of frustration and feel very difficult, you can close your eyes and imagine yourself as yourself ten years later, standing at a distance, and turning your head to look at the things you are encountering. Practice doing this, and you may feel calmer, knowing that everything in front of you will pass.
Only when people can feel that "being with this person can be free" can they experience love. There is neither inferiority complex nor need to show off superiority, can maintain a calm and natural state. True love should be like this.
Only when people can feel that "being with this person can be free" can they experience love. There is neither inferiority complex nor need to show off superiority, can maintain a calm and natural state. True love should be like this.
There are two phases you have to go through: There is no one to talk about sad things; Happy things can't be shared with anyone.
life, not like this, that's it, It won't be what you think anyway.
"People who haven't been in touch for a long time don't need to be in touch anymore. They work hard and live separately, and there is no intersection. If it should stay in the past, let it stay in the past." "If there is a fate, we will meet again, if there is no fate, even if we meet again, it is better not to see you for a mature performance." Always inadvertently, think of some old friends, But when we meet again, I don't know where to start.
Do you really think that others will care about you? How many people do you think will empathize with you? Therefore, you don’t need to tell others your story. You just need to show your best state. As for those little emotions If you are unhappy and feel wronged, just digest it yourself. What's more, I don't want that kind of only friend anymore, and I won't listen to other people's suggestions anymore, as long as everyone can get along.
The happiness in the eyes of others will not be your own happiness, but the shy satisfaction buried in your heart that you don't want to say is your real happiness.
Where is the dividing line between luxury and sophistication? One outward, seeking victory. One is inward, please be safe. Comparing with others all the time, one naturally admires luxury. If you ask yourself to improve all the time, you will naturally be educated.
Every experience you have, whether it is good or bad, will add to the thickness of your life. The world is small, please run with your dreams; the world is big, please grow with persistence.
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